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3 Simple Tips to Attract Good Vibes

Updated: Feb 12, 2020

I have been recently thinking about how everyone wants better energy, better people, and just overall good vibes in their lives (nice rhyme, right?) We all seem to crave more positive and better energy to surround ourselves with. So, I have created this post to share with you the "3 Simple Tips" to do just that!

Tip #1

Let go of other's expectations and let go of pleasing people.

Simply, let yourself be YOU! I know this sounds so simple and obvious. However, it is extremely difficult to be confident in your own skin these days, especially when there are so many people pretending to be something they're not. We see social media posts about "perfect" looks, skin, hair, houses, products, and overall lifestyles. We, then, compare ourselves to the things we see and then start the negative self-talk, deprecating thoughts, vibes, and energy.

"Comparison is the death of joy." -- the truest quote I've ever heard from Rachel Hollis. This quote slapped me in the face when I first read it. Because you know what, I do it too! I am 100% guilty of comparing myself to others and becoming a bitter, negative Nancy. I know you have probably felt this way at some point too. That's why I wrote this post; because you need to hear this: YOU JUST NEED TO BE YOU! Do things YOU want to do. I dare you to spend a full day doing only things that you want to do. Be selfish. Get some you-time. Once you do that, I promise you, people will become automatically drawn to you. Once they see you thriving in your own skin, being your own authentic self, they will want to be a part of it! People feed off of good energy. People like when people are utterly and un-apologetically themselves.

Tip #2

Follow positive, uplifting, and motivating accounts on social media instead.